Talking to Your Crush: 5 Easy Steps

Love unreturned is a terrible thing. On the other hand, not being able to tell the one you love exactly how you feel is actually worse. So, for this week’s post, I’m gonna give you all tips on how to talk to that special person who’s stolen your heart and tell them how you really feel!!! ;-)

1. Do Your Homework: Find out all you need to know about this person so when you finally get around to talking to them, you don’t run out of things to say. This step is for you IF you have never spoken to them before.
2. Don’t Be a Stranger: For guys, find out who her friends are and be friends with them. This might help you get over the nervousness you feel when she is  around you.  She’ll definitely feel the need to be nice to you, at least, once she knows you’re a friend to her friends. Girls, you can do this too you know…NOTHING IS STOPPING YOU!!!
3. Get to Know them: Be their friend. Make them trust you. Tell them stuffs about yourself, but not too much. Then you choose the best time to approach them. If you are the very shy type, perhaps the best time to approach them is when they are alone and not in the company of their friends. This will make talking to them easier and less distracting…
4. Take a Plunge Already!! : Now that you’ve managed to work your way into their circle of friends, it’s time to work your way into their hearts!!! Think about what you are going to say to your crush. Don’t over-think; a compliment on what they are wearing or their hairstyle will do wonders in opening up a line of conversation. You can also decide to take them out to a movie or to have dinner, just to make them feel comfortable around you.
5. Let’s get talking!! : Let it out! If you have a crush on them, let them know. They may like you just as much and are just waiting for you to take the first step. Open up the conversation casually and let it naturally lead to a point where you can let them know that you have feelings for them.

Whatever you do, make sure you do not do the following:

• Stalk your crush. If they don’t feel the same way about you or they aren’t sure about it yet, just let it go. If they feel the same way, they’ll come around sooner or later. Just keep up your friendship for the meantime.
• Sell yourself short. Don’t make your crush think you’re desperate, even if you are, or they’ll take you for granted.
• Act nervous around them. Even if your friends or hers try to tell him you have a crush, just be calm.
• Talk about things that are too personal or about past relationships until you actually start dating.

For more tips, warnings and tricks on how to win the heart of that special someone, click hereUntil next week, please, ALWAYS stay true to who you are. Remember that the fake things never last. xoxo If you enjoyed this post, please like it, share it, follow this blog and LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS!!! Thanks a lot!

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