Thursday 7 June 2012

WHY HE WON’T CALL YOU BACK AFTER YOUR FIRST DATE


“He couldn't stop staring at me…”
“He couldn’t stop saying how pretty ma eyes looked…”
“WHY DIDN’T HE CALL ME BACK!!!”
This has probably happened to so many of us after our first dates. Just when you think you both hit it off, he doesn’t call back!! Urgh!
One of the most important things to learn about dating is that much like when you’re in a relationship with a guy and they fear confrontation and nagging, many men are wusses about conveying in any way that is date is anything less than up to par. This means that they will carry on like they’re on the date of their life and make you feel good about it even though they have no intention of seeing you again because they don’t want to look like a prick and need to make you feel good about them and the date. So while you’re thinking it was great, his opinion might be completely different.
On the other hand, the problem might be from the guy and not from you.
He could be fickle, emotionally unavailable, or bored because he’s already managed to have sex with you. Sometimes we make the mistake of assuming that a sexual connection makes a great date when in fact it can often spell the last date.
To avoid this, here are some things you can do:
Instructions
1)       Food. Eat a decent amount of food at the restaurant. Even if you diet all the time to keep your figure, you don't need to make it look like you have issues with food on the first date.
2)       Smile. This is the easiest way to let him know you are interested in him. If he doesn't get the clue that you're interested, he probably will not bother calling you for another date.
3)       Courtesy. If he opens the car door for you, be sure to reach over and unlock his side. This shows him that you are considerate and think about other people.
4)       Be polite. Say please and thank you to him and everyone else around you. Show him how pleasant you are to be around.
5)       End the date with a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. You want to leave him wanting more and not wondering how many other guys you've done that with on a first date....
6)       Do not stay out too late. Resist the urge to go to his place after dinner. If you go to his place, he may again wonder how many other times you've done this on a first date....
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